Wednesday, September 24
This Post Is For 1 Of My GF.. [insert name]
i'm a regular reader to all my beloved blogger. And your's is 1 of the blogs that i always love to read. Not being a busy body or sumtink its just tat, at times tiz is the only way we could understand ppl around us.
gf, i understand u love him alot but u r tangle with everything & seems lost to settle things up.
ur post abt tat girl msg u and stuff, although it doesnt happen to me, i actually feel a sudden pain for u. coz i could see the whole picture..
its true tat its hard to stabilize a relationship wen thrs a third party. but wen thr's 1, u cant simply put the blame on tat guy. the thing is, if tat girl has ur bf frenster then she should hv known earlier tat he's attch..
he bought u gifts, whistle u to turn back just to say bye and ily..itsnt tat sweet 4 u? nt all relationships r like tat. n nw i see ur picture in his profile and his shoutout. it proves alot tat he loves u. u might think, 'wat do u know...'
well girl, he's my bf buddy since secondary sch.
wen he loves tat girl he will alway will.
i see he's ok with it and he wants it stable to be with u, y r u stressing urself up dear?
i'll tell u wat he was like last time.
wen i just got to know my guy, he and his ex were quarrelling bcoz he meets a girl outside, but he wasnt alone. he and his group of frensz, but obviously tat girl he meets was bitch enuf to come alone. but he and tat girl didnt kip cntct.
he started quarreling wif his gf the day after. but things got better each single day. he spend most of the time with his gf then other girls... till thr was 1 time he msg my guy saying tat, he was very touched wif his gf coz she showed him love. she loved him too much. but then he has to continue his ns then tat girl i dunno wth happen to her. but since then he didnt cntct my guy..all we saw was his new photo's with his frens.. most of them come out as couple but his the odd 1 out.
wen i saw ur pic in his profile, i smiled.
coz he got a girl 4 himself whom i knw and not too minah compared to the others.. like duh!
i was shock tat he updates his frenster tat way.
he have ur pic as bg, display pic, n the shoutout.
previously he doesnt giv a damn with his ex.
and tats wen my bf disturb him tat he got a new 'bacen'. and guess wat ur bf ckp 'ape bacen2??'
but they were jokin lar..so no offence k.
if he really does play behind ur back, talk things out with him. but 1 thing u must remember, changes dun happen overnight..
3rd parties are normal dear. even my relationship also do have.
and mine was since late may tiz year drag till now. but so far me n bf didnt quarrel abt tat girl. coz i kept quiet and see hw things go. tat girl said she mits my guy and stuff but i trust him more.
and u knw wat happen? after all wat she maki me, my bf and our family, i finally blow up. i just said out to her wateva i hv kept inside. nw, for almost 5 months, i've been eating wateva nonsense she said abt my guy.
but god knws well.
i just cnt stand her anymore so i said if she's really nt happy then cum and mit me and talk. but if dier slh ckp, tgn aku mesti sampai. but then she called me names. all tiz happen in the internet we didnt mit up. at last she said,
'ni pmpn bodo siak aku kat sini stakat nak annoy dier jek, lagi dier bleh layan.'
u get wat i mean?
for 5 months she's been telling bullshit abt my guy. She's just seeking attention and her intention is to make us breakup.
i was lucky enuf tat i didnt make a stupid decision to leave him. coz tat moment of time, i really think positively.
if we dun trust or own bf then hu will? so there's no use saying tat we loved them if we dun have the trust.
we r yet to knw hu is rite.
dear gf, dun jump to conclusion or just lepas tgn saying we'll just see how. try understanding him and his ways then u will know hu is rite.
maybe tat girl hu msg u said the truth and maybe she's nt.
hv u tok to him abt tiz? asked him.
org kiri kanan busuk hati. they cnt see us happy ader je dorg nk kacau.
be more patient. waiting and seeing things change will worth ur time. although u hv misunderstandings wif him doesnt mean its the end of the world.
settle things out girl.
dun rush..
my advice is think.
think abt his mistake first then think of wat he has sacrifice for u. a simple sacrifice can cover up the biggest mistake of all.
apetah lagi masalah nie?
reading ur blog, tells me he loves u. tats y he did wat he did.
so nw is actually ur turn to do wat u suppose to do.
tis is just wat i could share wit u. but its up to u whether u want to listen or not.
it's really up to u.
tkcre:)
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