Thursday, August 7
I have been reading people's profile and blogs recently. And what's got really into my mind is that people nowadays makes decision really fast and easy. Especially in relationships. Accepting someone to be their bf / gf so damn easily.
Its not wrong to accept that person to be part of our life but wouldnt you want to know them much better. I mean, young girls nowadays, they simply fall in love so easily. They see a guy that is handsome, straight away they have feelings for them. They don't even have the negative thoughts about these strangers. About their backgrounds or thier personal life. We will never know whether that guy is single or attached. I'm sure we girls don't want to be disappointed in the person we love. You cant blame anyone but ourselves if 1 day u got to know that your boyfriend / girlfriend actually already has a relationship before they were with you.
In these kind of situation, we girls will surely start to get so emotional and then start quarrelling with our guy. The thing that should come to our mind first is, 'why did i accept someone whom i don't even know his real background'. Girls will simply blame guys for not telling the truth and stuff while guys will alway give an excuse such as they doesnt want to break our heart.
To me those are simply crap!
Guys are simply indecisive when it comes to choosing. They are so afraid that they might hurt 1 party that they play truant behind thier gf's back. But what they doesnt know that once we girls know the real truth, it will be much more hurting. On the other hand, girls cant get enoug of what they have. Not all girls. Some just use guys to be thier ATM and some just want to play with thier hearts. But when they are dumb by these guys, they simply put the whole blame on guys.
When facing these kind of situation, girls start to say, guys are jerks. Guys are all the same. Same goes to the guys. Just because of 1 girl who treat them so ill before, they tend to think all girls are the same. And we all end up not giving each other a chance to love again. Its all simply our own mistake. We should actually make our own choices. To go a step higher or to stay and learn more.
What i can see now, youngsters are so eager to fall in love. They dont even think the outcome of getting hurt. They simply could say those 3 words [ i love u ] to each other so easily but once they start to fight the other 3 words [ i hate u ] will come out. Why rush to grow up? Why rush to fall in love? Why even rush to say those words?
When thinking about how boys confront girls to be their gf it really makes me laugh:
Boy : "I want to stead with you can?"
Girl : "huh.....You sure or not?"
Boy : "yah..want or not? i like u from last time already u knw..."
Girl : "hmmm...ok. Y nvr tell me earlier? I also got feeling for u but i very shy want to say."
That's what i actually read from my cousin's handphone recently. I just like find it cute but then i start advicing him. Anyway he's only 13. I told him that he still have a long way to go in these kind of situations. But he told me he really love this girl alot. Hahaha. Puppy love maybe:)
Whatever it is, it's our own choice to make a decision to love someone or be loved by them.
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